When you hear someone
has cancer, you think one of two things:
Whoever has it must be going through a tough time or that they’re an
incredibly strong person to deal with it.
Both of which are very true.
Cancer isn’t easy and neither is being able to beat it.
Marjoriet
Matute was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in 1999 when she was 17. Over the course of a year she received an
extensive and intense amount of chemotherapy and radiation, and lost her sense
of taste because of it. When we
discussed what it was like to have cancer she made it clear that she didn’t let
it get in the way of doing what she wanted.
She wasn’t going to let it interfere with living her life the way she
thought it should be. “At 17 you live
that life that, you know, you’re the strongest thing, you know everything and
you can’t tell us anything. But when
you’re told you can’t live and you can’t do something, now you’re going to do
it and you’re going to do it to the best of your capability and you’re going to
go really hard.”
Because of the
cancer and chemotherapy, her doctors told her she would never be able to have
children even after it went into remission.
She had accepted that she would never be a mother, but then a miracle
happened. That miracle came September
2009 and August 2011 by the names of Devin and Tristan Matute-Gueche.
She had
promised to always give back to her community after her cancer went into
remission, and now with two sons, she wanted to teach them to do the same. In 2013 she started a nonprofit organization
called Devin & Tristan Give Back (DTGB) where they try to inspire ordinary
people to give back to their communities.
Since it started, Marjoriet has held a multitude of events and
fundraisers to help give back to communities far and wide, covering a variety
of issues—childhood obesity, AIDS, bullying, domestic violence etc.
Between her
busy schedule as a mom and philanthropist, she also takes time to write for TheHuffington Post and CNN. “How do you go
to college to be a writer? You know, I didn’t graduate from
college. I wasn’t intentionally trying
to be a writer; it kind of happened and I was successful at it. Had I know with my track record that I was
always successful in writing; maybe I would’ve paid attention to it. But all through school…all the credits that I
did take were all for writing.” She
enjoys writing and whenever a story pops up, she jumps at the chance to take
it. Since she’s started writing for
Huffington Post she’s interviewed the likes of LL Cool J, Angela Simmons and
Brian McKnight.
She didn’t let the
curveballs life threw at her stop her from achieving the success she always
knew she would have. Marjoriet says,
“Having cancer gives you a totally different sense of life—you live fearlessly,
you take risks and you try everything.
You go hard, you go epic.”
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